Episode #58 Dating After 40: The Subtle Mistake That Keeps Love at a Distance
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Why does dating still feel a little… off?
You’re more aware now.
You see the red flags.
You have standards.
And yet something isn’t quite landing.
What I see all the time (and what I did myself for years) is this subtle shift:
You stop chasing, but you also start guarding.
You go from open-hearted to quietly holding back.
From giving people a chance to needing to feel “sure” before you let yourself feel anything.
And it makes sense. Of course you want to protect your heart.
But here’s the part no one talks about:
That protection can start to feel like distance. Not just to you, but to the men you actually want to meet.
In this week’s episode of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast, I’m talking about how to have high standards without building emotional walls.
If dating has started to feel more like analyzing than experiencing this one will land.
🎧 Listen now and see what shifts when you stop holding back and start showing up fully, with yourself on your side.
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