Find Real Love After 40
Tired of dating apps that feel like a dead end? Discover the Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 and learn How To Spot Emotionally Unavailable Guys Fast, so you can focus on real connections that go somewhere. You’re not too late. You’re not too much. You’re exactly where you’re meant to be and love can still surprise you. This guide will help you start where you are.

Welcome! I’m Truly Eleanor
I help women over 40 heal the emotional patterns that keep pulling them into unavailable love, so they can trust themselves and feel safe choosing a partner who chooses them back. Click below to get started:
I’m a former “maybe he’ll change” optimist turned magnetic love advocate (for myself first, because #integrity). After healing decades of emotional wounds from a childhood filled with narcissistic family drama, I finally stopped chasing emotionally unavailable guys … and found my husband in my 40s.
I’ve spent the last 17 years as a coach, counselor, and teacher, guiding women from all over the world through emotional healing, self-worth reclamation, and the journey to authentic love. (Basically: I’ve seen it all and I’ve helped women rise through it all.)
Now? I help other brilliant women over 40 do the same by starting with the one relationship that matters most: the one with yourself.
(And yes, there will be journaling. And possibly some snacks. I don’t make the rules. Oh wait! I do.)
Find Real Love Online: The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (And How To Spot Unavailable Guys Fast)
This guide shows you the apps that actually work plus how to quickly spot emotionally unavailable men, so you can focus on real connections that go somewhere.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE IF YOU WANT TO FIND MR. RIGHT After 40
Love is closer than you think.
But only if you stop dragging your nervous system through emotional hot lava to find it.
This space is for women ready to date with emotional clarity, real healing, and maybe a little 90s playlist in the background.
You’re in the right place if you’re ready to:
Become aware of your patterns and what you’ve been doing in your dating life up until this point, so you can create healthy dating patterns focused on what you want.
Become more accepting of yourself as you are and forgive and love yourself for all the choices you’ve made up until this point.
Become more connected to your true self, tap into your heart and listen to your intuition to determine who you like and how you’re feeling during the dating process, so you can make choices that will bring you the love you truly desire.
I’m probably not for you if:
You’re looking for a list of generic dating scripts and instructions to download and follow on how to “get a guy and keep him.”
You’re looking for ways to activate your divine feminine, so you can magnetize your soulmate to you.
You’re looking for ways to crack the code on men or get inside their head, so you can figure out how to attract him.
Hey! I’m Truly Eleanor. I’m a wife, intuitive dating coach and guide to help you find lasting love. My mission is teach single women 40+ to stop chasing unavailable guys, so you can find Mr. Right, without doing divine feminine activations or self-abandoning tactics to “get the guy and keep him.“
Despite having a university degree in child and family studies and successfully coaching women for 15 years in the areas of health, relationships and life purpose, I personally struggled in my romantic relationships.
After being dumped by text message at age 43, I decided ENOUGH is ENOUGH. I deserved TRUE LASTING LOVE! I realized that if I want to find a loving, healthy relationship, it was me that needed to change. I would have to dig… deep! Now, I’m married to my best friend, who makes me laugh and feel more loved than I ever thought possible!
In 2018, I took everything that I learned from my life-changing experience and created a process to help other women; I made it my mission to make sure that women didn’t feel like true, lasting love was not for them. And I’m proud to say that this powerful method has been an incredible game-changer for hundreds of women around the world.







