Meet truly eleanor
TIRED OF CHASING UNAVAILABLE GUYS?
Do you find yourself in that continuous dance… you chase love, finally give up, are heartbroken, then start over again with the same results? Sound familiar?
After years of playing the Heartbreak Hokey Pokey myself, I understand how frustrating it feels to know that although I had so much to offer, I would always choose the unavailable guys. I sabotaged myself by getting involved with unavailable guys – whether it was physically or emotionally. As the years – and breakups – passed, I felt even more hopeless.
Then came a doozie! When I was 43, I was dumped by text message… a TEXT message!
“love is closer than you think!“
I BELIEVE:
It’s even easier to get married later in life and truly live your dream relationship
You can have the dream relationship right now without losing weight, changing who you are or any other “reason” you think you can’t
Having a loving relationship in the next year is easier than you believe, easier than society would have you think and easier than you would expect
That’s when I realized that if I was to find a deep, loving, healthy relationship, it was me that needed to change. I would have to dig… deep!
Like so many women, I had challenges with prioritizing myself. I was always putting HIM first. Constantly changing, putting my wants and needs aside to make him happy. I did whatever I could to make things work… and not face another failed relationship.
It felt like I was often trying to force a square peg into a round hole.
Soon I realized that I was unknowingly making poor decisions and taking unhealthy actions based on my self-destructive thoughts and feelings.
Those thoughts and feelings were a toxic combination of childhood experiences, past mistakes, self-blame, demanding family members, drama, anxiety, and health issues, all combined with the pressure of running my business.
I knew that if I was willing to do the work and focus on what I wanted while facing my own limiting beliefs, including insecurities and habitual patterns, I could start unblocking those negative beliefs, build my confidence, trust myself, and change my results.
As my stronger, authentic self emerged, I began trusting my intuition and allowing myself to be vulnerable. Soon I began leaning into choices that were good for me.
One of those choices was to go on a dating app – again.
But this time I showed up differently.
Ten days later, I met my handsome, spectacular husband-to-be.
My process allowed me to realize that it took having everything I didn’t want – to recognize – and fight for what I truly wanted.
Now, I’m married to my best friend, who makes me laugh and feel more loved than I ever thought possible!
He lets me be me, supporting and encouraging me to live my purpose.
I took everything that I learned from my life-changing experience and created a process to help other women. And I’m proud to say that this powerful method has been an incredible game-changer for hundreds of women around the world.
My courses are to help women over 40 discover why they’ve been repeating unhealthy relationship patterns and how they can make the changes necessary to love themselves and attract and build the healthy, loving, life-long relationships they’ve been seeking.
FREE CHALLENGE: DETOX UNAVAILABLE GUYS
This self-study challenge includes a workbook with powerful exercises to teach you: how to spot your Mr. Unavailable (it’s different for everyone), how to identify Mr. Right (so you can clearly recognize him) and a proven exercise to go after what you truly want! Get ready to detox old dating patterns!
Truly Eleanor
MANIFESTO
- Having a giggle fit with my husband is True Love and Happiness
- Dark night of the soul or not-nothing stands in the way of my morning coffee
- Baking decadent healthy cookies is my idea of a good time
- Yes, to Organic/Non-GMO Whole Foods, AND yes, to potato chips for dinner
- I’m tuned in like the grey-haired kid in Sixth Sense: I can see, hear and feel things beyond the five senses … unless I want to see, hear or feel things about my own life.
- I love helping women feel connected, loved and stay true to themselves. I want you to know: You are not alone.
- Learning to love, accept and forgive (myself and others) has been the hardest and best thing I’ve ever done as an Adult Child of Narcissists (ACON). And I’m a work in progress.
- My heart breaks when women make themselves wrong, criticize who they are or feel like love isn’t for them. The truth is: Love is closer than you think and someone will love you for who you are. Period.
- Animals are wiser and kinder than any human and the sooner we realize this and treat all living creatures with the love and respect they deserve, the faster our world’s problems will be solved.
- Joyful expression and community is an absolute necessity.
- I love Oprah, cats, astrology, french fries, Narnia, Little House on the Prairie, Anne of Green Gables, The Steve Miller band and Tiny Dollhouse furniture/Miniature things.
- Spiritual bypassing is very dangerous and I do not subscribe to Toxic Positivity. All feelings need to be felt and honoured.
love notes
“I highly recommend Eleanor and the Beautiful, Intuitive Work she does with her clients. I have worked with her and it has been such a life changing process for me in identifying what has held me back or kept me stuck in a lifetime of old negative patterns. For the first time in my life, I am learning how to step forward into my own personal power to create the life I’ve always dreamed of living.”
about eleanor macdonald
Intuitive Love Coach, Author, and Women’s Empowerment Expert
Eleanor MacDonald has been a trailblazer in the world of personal growth, empowerment, and intuitive love coaching for over 15 years. As the founder of Truly Eleanor, she has dedicated her career to helping women break free from self-sabotaging patterns, tune into their inner wisdom, and attract the life and relationships they truly desire.
Since 2017, Eleanor has offered transformative online courses and coaching to women worldwide, building on her years of experience offering in person health and wellness coaching since 2008. With a unique blend of counseling expertise, holistic nutrition, and energy healing, Eleanor’s coaching approach is both practical and soulful, empowering her clients to overcome limiting beliefs and step into their best selves.
After earning her designation as a Registered Holistic Nutritionist in 2007, she later went on to become President and Board Member of the Canadian School of Natural Nutrition Alumni Association (2013-2016), where she fostered community growth and advocated for wellness education. Her earlier career as a youth worker, case manager, and program coordinator in social services equipped her with a deep understanding of human behavior and resilience, skills she now brings to her clients in the realms of love and relationships.
Eleanor holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Child and Family Studies from the University of British Columbia. She is also a Reiki teacher, seamlessly blending energy work into her coaching practice to help clients find balance and alignment. Through her writing and coaching, Eleanor has been described as a “leader, inspirational mentor, born writer, and healer.”
Beyond her professional accomplishments, Eleanor’s global travels have taken her to every continent except Antarctica. She’s a coffee enthusiast with a playful sense of humour, finding joy in watching animal videos and celebrating life’s simple pleasures.
Eleanor MacDonald’s mission is clear: to help women stop chasing the wrong things—unavailable guys, elusive happiness, or unfulfilled dreams—and instead embrace the love, joy, and authentic self-expression waiting for them. Through her courses, coaching, and vibrant personality, Eleanor inspires women to transform their lives and relationships, one intuitive step at a time.
Fun Facts:
sun sign
Aquarius
rising sign
Aquarius
moon sign
Capricorn
Pic is me in Perth, Australia 2000, doing a University exchange at Edith Cowan University (one of the best times of my life as you can see from my smile)
Top Values:
Autonomy: the ability to make your own decisions about what to do rather than being influenced by someone else or told what to do.
Joy: we can change our lives and change the world, and have fun doing it!
Accountability: the obligation or willingness to accept responsibility for one’s actions
Myers/Briggs: INFJ
My top 2 Career Path suggestions: 1-Priest, 2-Private Investigator
Human Design: Generator 6/2
TMI: I was diagnosed with IBS at age 21, Hashimoto’s at age 44 and currently going through perimenopause at age 51 (fun!)
Fave Books: All things memoirs! I LOVED Cher, Paris and Acne: A Memoir by Laura Chinn