Do you struggle to find lasting love with the right guy because you are drawn to unavailable guys, despite knowing deep down you are sabotaging yourself?

Hey, I’m Truly Eleanor, your host of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. I’m an Intuitive Love Coach who found Mr. Right in my 40s after breaking my pattern of attracting unavailable guys on repeat-and you can too! 

This podcast was born from years of successfully coaching women worldwide out of the same patterns I was stuck in. My mission is to help single women over 40 find the fastest path to Mr. Right: to stop chasing unavailable guys.

In season 1, I focus on effective tools to trust your intuition and break the pattern of chasing after love. I’ll share empowering dating tips, advice to avoid, and how to cut through the BS. 

X  No complicated, inauthentic phrases or scripts to “keep a guy’s interest”

X No talk of getting into your Divine Feminine to find love

X No advice that focuses on what guys need from you

When I’m not inspiring women to find love after 40, you can find me having a laughing fit with the love of my life, baking my heart out in the kitchen or owning my GenX ways: metallic eyeshadow and my old school journal!

I can’t wait to be part of your love journey. xo Eleanor

“Powerful”

Without a doubt in my mind, I know that the knowledge shared in just the first three episodes is powerful and practical for me. What resonated with me the most was the comment on intuition. Eleanor’s words provided me a safe place to lean into my confidence. I can use my intuition to help have a deeper connection and understanding of myself. That gives me hope. I am optimistic in my journey to find true love, powerful love, pinch me love! I don’t think the work will be easy. But I know the love will be.

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

— 74billiegirl

What an amazing podcast

“Eleanor has a unique style to deliver truth about men. I love how real she is about her journey. I also love everything she teaches, she had gone through and not delivered from books. Her voice is calm and it’s fun to listen to her! I look forward to learn from Eleanor and looking forward to her contents. Great podcast to listen to, I highly recommend it!”

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

— Kinga Steward

Refreshing and inspiring

“After listening to the first three episodes of this podcast, I am really looking forward to listening to more. Eleanor has a way to share inspiring stories that go against the toxic dating advice sometimes given to women over 40 that, and feel like a breath of fresh air. I love her two mantras “love is closer than you think” and “pinch me love”. I can’t wait for the challenge. Thank you Eleanor.”

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

— ADL

Give us a rating and review with your honest feedback so we can improve and better serve you in the future. Your reviews are SO helpful and motivating to me personally, but beyond that, reviews help with rankings which helps other women find the show and allows me to keep providing you with free content every single week.

Episode Archives

You (the listener!) are so important to the show:
otherwise, I’m literally talking into the void.
So, any support is deeply appreciated!

Despite having a university degree in child and family studies and successfully coaching women for 15 years in the areas of health, relationships and life purpose, I personally struggled in my romantic relationships. 

After being dumped by text message at age 43, I decided ENOUGH is ENOUGH. I deserved TRUE LASTING LOVE! I realized that if I want to find a loving, healthy relationship, it was me that needed to change. I would have to dig… deep! Now, I’m married to my best friend, who makes me laugh and feel more loved than I ever thought possible!

In 2018, I took everything that I learned from my life-changing experience and created a process to help other women; I made it my mission to make sure that women didn’t feel like true, lasting love was not for them. And I’m proud to say that this powerful method has been an incredible game-changer for hundreds of women around the world.  

ready to find the right guy for you?

The first step is to take my Challenge

The fastest path to find Mr. Right after 40 is to stop chasing unavailable guys. Learn how to recognize unavailable guys before you get involved with my Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge! It’s completely free. Access your workbook below!