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REMEMBER: LOVE IS CLOSER THAN YOU THINK!
Are You A Single Woman Over 40 And Over Your Non-Existent Love Life?
Do you struggle to find lasting love with the right guy because you are drawn to unavailable guys, despite knowing deep down you are sabotaging yourself?
Hey, I’m Truly Eleanor, your host of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. I’m an Intuitive Dating Coach who found Mr. Right in my 40s after breaking my pattern of attracting unavailable guys on repeat-and you can too!
This podcast was born from years of successfully coaching women worldwide out of the same patterns I was stuck in. My mission is to help single women over 40 find the fastest path to Mr. Right: to stop chasing unavailable guys.
In season 1, I focus on effective tools to trust your intuition and break the pattern of chasing after love. I’ll share empowering dating tips, advice to avoid, and how to cut through the BS.
X No complicated, inauthentic phrases or scripts to “keep a guy’s interest”
X No talk of getting into your Divine Feminine to find love
X No advice that focuses on what guys need from you
Yes to feeling inspired!
Yes to being your true self in love and life!
Yes to trusting yourself and listening to your intuition!
When I’m not inspiring women to find love after 40, you can find me having a laughing fit with the love of my life, baking my heart out in the kitchen or owning my GenX ways: metallic eyeshadow and my old school journal!
I can’t wait to be part of your love journey. xo Eleanor
WhAt Listeners Are sAying
“Powerful”
Without a doubt in my mind, I know that the knowledge shared in just the first three episodes is powerful and practical for me. What resonated with me the most was the comment on intuition. Eleanor’s words provided me a safe place to lean into my confidence. I can use my intuition to help have a deeper connection and understanding of myself. That gives me hope. I am optimistic in my journey to find true love, powerful love, pinch me love! I don’t think the work will be easy. But I know the love will be.
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— 74billiegirl
“What an amazing podcast“
“Eleanor has a unique style to deliver truth about men. I love how real she is about her journey. I also love everything she teaches, she had gone through and not delivered from books. Her voice is calm and it’s fun to listen to her! I look forward to learn from Eleanor and looking forward to her contents. Great podcast to listen to, I highly recommend it!”
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— Kinga Steward
“Refreshing and inspiring“
“After listening to the first three episodes of this podcast, I am really looking forward to listening to more. Eleanor has a way to share inspiring stories that go against the toxic dating advice sometimes given to women over 40 that, and feel like a breath of fresh air. I love her two mantras “love is closer than you think” and “pinch me love”. I can’t wait for the challenge. Thank you Eleanor.”
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— ADL
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Episode Archives

Best Dating Advice for Women Over 40 -Part 3: Confront Your Fears
Season 2 Episode 9 Are your fears secretly sabotaging your love life? In Part 3 of my series on the Best Dating Advice for Women Over 40, we’re here to confront your fears and habits that might be holding you back from finding Mr. Right. From the fear of rejection to worries about repeating past…

The Best Dating Advice for Women Over 40 – Part 2: Taking Aligned Action
Season 2 Episode 8 Dating after 40 doesn’t have to feel like a never-ending cycle of frustration, ghosting, and guys who can’t even make time for a coffee 🙄 If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and actually meet someone amazing, this episode is for you! In Part 2 of Best Dating Advice for…

Best Dating Advice For Women Over 40– Part 1: Managing Expectations
Season 2 Episode 7 Welcome to Part 1 of a three-part series Best Dating Advice for Women 40+ where I’m breaking down how to date high-quality guys and avoid the ones who aren’t worth your time. But before we jump into strategies, we have to start with the most important thing—your mindset. Let’s dive in!…

How To Recognize Unavailable Guys: Red Flags to Watch Out For
Season 2 Episode 6 If you’re a single woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right and tired of wasting your time on unavailable guys, this episode is for you. As an intuitive love coach, I’m breaking down what red flags to watch out for in a guy, how to recognize unavailable guys, and—most importantly—how to…

How to Recognize Mr. Right: Green Flags in Dating
Season 2 Episode 5 Hey there! If you’re a single woman over 40 looking for love and tired of wasting time on the wrong guys, this episode is for you. As an intuitive dating coach, I’m diving into the green flags you should look for in dating—those signs that help you recognize Mr. Right when…

3 Ways to Meet Mr. Right After 40 Part 3: Online Dating
Season 2 Episode 4 If you’re a single woman over 40 and ready to meet Mr. Right, you’re in the right place! This is Part 3 of my 3-part series on the best ways to meet him this year—not five years from now, not in some vague future, but now. Today, we’re diving into online…
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About the host
Hey! I’m Truly Eleanor. I’m a wife, intuitive dating coach and guide to help you find lasting love. My mission is teach single women 40+ to stop chasing unavailable guys, so you can find Mr. Right, without doing divine feminine activations or self-abandoning tactics to “get the guy and keep him.“
Despite having a university degree in child and family studies and successfully coaching women for 15 years in the areas of health, relationships and life purpose, I personally struggled in my romantic relationships.
After being dumped by text message at age 43, I decided ENOUGH is ENOUGH. I deserved TRUE LASTING LOVE! I realized that if I want to find a loving, healthy relationship, it was me that needed to change. I would have to dig… deep! Now, I’m married to my best friend, who makes me laugh and feel more loved than I ever thought possible!
In 2018, I took everything that I learned from my life-changing experience and created a process to help other women; I made it my mission to make sure that women didn’t feel like true, lasting love was not for them. And I’m proud to say that this powerful method has been an incredible game-changer for hundreds of women around the world.

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The fastest path to find Mr. Right after 40 is to stop chasing unavailable guys. Learn how to recognize unavailable guys before you get involved with my Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge! It’s completely free. Access your workbook below!