Is It Intuition or Fear? How to Tell the Difference in Love
Season 3 Episode 3
Is it your intuition—or are you just freaking yourself out?
For the Gen X Woman Who’s Ready for Real Love
You’re a single woman over 40, you’re done chasing emotionally unavailable guys, and you’re finally ready to tune into your intuition to find true love. But wait—how do you know it’s your intuition guiding you… and not just your fear in disguise?

In This Episode I’m Sharing:
💫 How to actually tell the difference between your intuition and your fearful thoughts
💫 Why your head may be the worst GPS for love (no offense, logic)
💫 The surprising way intuition really feels—spoiler alert: it’s not always a neon YES
💫 What self-sabotage sounds like (and how to lovingly call it out)
Key Takeaways:
✔ Intuition is calm, simple, and heart-centered—it feels like love, even when it’s scary
✔ Fear and sabotage are loud, chaotic, and rooted in your past
✔ You don’t need to “quiet your mind” forever—you just need to choose which voice to follow
✔ You’re allowed to be messy, nervous, and still divinely guided (hi, Bridget Jones)
✔ Your intuition won’t always come as a “lightning bolt”—sometimes it’s a whisper in the noise
Listen to this episode if you’ve ever asked:
- “Is this a gut feeling or just panic?”
- “How do I trust myself after so many disappointments?”
- “Am I self-sabotaging again… or protecting myself?”
Next Steps:
👉 Missed the first two episodes of the season?
- [Ep 1: Intuition 101 – What It Is & Why It Matters in Love]
- [Ep 2: How to Access Your Intuition to Find Mr. Right]
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