Guest Interview-From Sabotage to Self-Love:Finding Real Love After 40
In this real, raw conversation on Unlearn the Crap & Level Up with host Kathy Baldwin, Truly Eleanor, Intuitive Dating Coach, shares how she stopped self-abandoning, unlearned patterns of people-pleasing and sabotage, and finally created the kind of love that feels like home. You’ll hear how childhood conditioning shows up in dating, why “perfect on paper” isn’t the same as aligned, and the exact inner shifts that helped Eleanor meet her husband in her 40s.
If you’re a single woman over 40 who’s done all the “right” things yet keeps attracting emotionally unavailable guys, this episode will feel like a permission slip to choose yourself first, trust your intuition, and date with intention. Listen in for practical reflection questions, loving truth-bombs, and an invitation to start unlearning your crap, so lasting love can find you.
What you’ll learn
- How self-abandonment disguises itself as “being the cool girl” in dating
- The inner shift that makes love easier after 40 (not harder)
- Red flags of emotional unavailability, in them and in you
- A simple pre/post-date reflection framework to stay aligned
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